HOW MUCH SHOULD YOU REALLY SPEND ON AN ENGAGEMENT RING?

You’ve probably heard the old “two months’ salary” rule.

Let’s retire that one. It’s outdated, arbitrary, and came from ad campaigns, not real life.

There’s no universal number. But there is a smart & thoughtful way to decide.

Here’s what actually matters:

1. Your comfort

This ring is about love, not pressure.

If spending a certain amount makes you uneasy the next day, it’s too much.

The best engagement rings are chosen with clarity, not financial stress.

2. Your values

For some, the priority is size.

For others, it’s sentiment, sustainability, or a story worth telling.

At Neij, we see clients create beautiful custom rings across a wide range of budgets - from $1,800 to over $8,000.

It’s never about impressing others. It’s about creating something meaningful for you both.

3. What you’re actually investing in

Let’s be honest, a lot of rings are overpriced.

Big brands charge for their logo. Chain stores cut corners on quality.

And what you end up with? Often a generic design that someone else already has.

That’s where bespoke comes in.

At Neij, you’re investing in:

• Recycled solid gold

• Ethically sourced gemstones

• Craftsmanship guided by your story

• A collaborative design process with no sales pressure

Bespoke doesn’t have to mean excessive.

It just means yours.

Realistic Budgets We Often Work With:

💍 $1,800–$2,500

Simple, elegant, made-to-order with thoughtful details

💍 $2,500–$4,000

Custom design, just for you. Higher carat metals or gemstones.

💍 $5,000+

Fully bespoke, intricate customised designs, highest carat metals & gemstones.

Whatever your budget, we guide you through the process with honesty and care.

In Short?

Spend what feels right.

Forget the rules.

Choose something lasting - in meaning, not just materials.

Curious what’s possible for your budget?

Explore our bespoke process →